I like new friends and I love making new ones on lj. I have made some great new acquaintances, especially in the last year, and you all know who you are and how much you mean to me. Lately, however, I've noticed that a few 'ghost' friends have spontaneously appeared. People have just added me without so much as a wave or a hello. I just don't see the point of someone randomly adding me and not telling me about it. That's why it says COMMENT to be added :)
I'm not having a whinge, I'm just trying to get people to not waste their time. If you seem like a nice person I would love to have you as a friend. If you prefer to go through life being Ms Anonymous Lurker then I will not add you.